Soft swap is the process of exchanging partners for low key, non-penetrative sexual stimulation. Because there are various definitions that don't always agree we've tried to set out a guideline as to what activities you can expect. A hard swap includes all sorts of sexual activities, including intercourse. But a soft swap stops short of penetration, usually including manual stimulation, flirting, caressing, kissing and potentially oral sex.
Yes, although it didn't start out as such. Shortly after we were married, we began socializing with another married couple. Usually this meant they came over to our house for drinks and dinner and a movie one weekend and then we'd go over to their. Soft swapping involves flirting, kissing, touching, and oral sex at the most, but absolutely no sexual intercourse. Soft swapping is considered to be the “gateway drug” to serious swinging. First timers often do a soft swap first to measure their comfort level in swinging, and check if they can push their boundaries further.
Swapping Boyfriends on Vacation (ahhhh)We've done boyfriend swaps before, but nothing quite like this one. We swapped boyfriends for the nigh, but this ti. Jessica Drake, an adult superstar and certified sex educator, Some of my most intimate, fulfilling encounters lately have been ‘soft swap’ — meaning I have sex with my primary partner.
So I have to say its one thing to have sex infront of another couple, but to swap even a soft swap it doesn't make sence if you dont go all the way. What if you go into it planning to only "soft swap" as you put it and then your spouse or your spouse's partner wanted to take it all the way? What if after that encounter you said you didn't. Confession # 06/28/ My husband wanted a wife swap. I almost slapped him when he asked me first. I came from a conservative family. We don't even think of such stuff.